Dating apps aren’t always lovely for trans and non-conforming people (Picture: Dave Anderson for Metro.co.uk) One of my best friends has a new man. Where did she meet him? Tinder, of course. Tinder’s where boys go to meet girls and girls go to meet boys. But where do you go if you’re aren’t binary? If you’re trans or non-binary, apps offer only disappointment or dick picks. That’s not what they say. Tinder says its multiple gender options have created 13million matches for non-binary users.