DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE a partner and two brilliant little boys with her but I can’t help having the urge to look elsewhere.
I recently joined a dating site.
I am 28 and my partner is 26. Our boys are five and three and I adore them.
The problem is I feel like a married man when all my mates are single and partying.
Maybe I just settled down too early?
If my partner finds out what I’m up to it will break her heart but I am constantly fantasising about having some-one else.
I am hoping for a new lease of life. I feel excited but scared at the same time.
Family time is great and I love doing things with my partner but need something new.
DEIDRE SAYS: Do not underestimate the lasting damage you could be doing to your family.
Think carefully about what you have to lose and stop comparing yourself to your mates.
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Take yourself off the dating site, organise some babysitting and book some sexy weekends away.
You may find you have all you really need right now on your doorstep.
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